We have prepared some great things this week to help you lower your costs and make it easier to eat healthy. Now let's take a moment and reflect on what you are doing to make you happy.
I can honestly say for years (more than 20) I was working. I occasionally threw in a trip, or worked on a craft project, or worked out. My main focus was always the work. What I had to do the next day, what projects had to be completed, and meeting the deadlines requested of me. Sometimes that drove me to working seven days a week. I didn't complain. Actually I didn't even think about it. It was things that I had to get done in order for me to continue to be employed. That's how I saw it.
And now I am reflecting and advising those of you out there the very cliche, but oh so true truth of it all. Stop to smell the roses. Not just when the roses bloom, but everyday. What did you do for yourself today? Did you spend time working out? Did you sew up a new outfit? Did you enjoy that book you've been meaning to read for years?
Ask yourself the question. You are not being selfish by doing something for yourself everyday. That's the other guilt trip. I thought that if I "treated" myself on a rare occasion that I was mostly giving and only occasionally a little tiny bit selfish. Get rid of that word (unless you truly are selfish and don't share anything). Most of us share our time, our knowledge, our humor, our lives. Take time to be positive for yourself and your life.
Remember when you were a kid and tried everything to find your niche? Well, it's time to do that again to find that everyday. With youtube.com and the millions of other videos, let's plan to plant that first shot of tomatoes on your balcony next spring. What do you need? Will there be any cost? If you plan, you can minimize the impact of picking up a new hobby.
So take a moment and reflect on what you did for you today. Stay tuned for more inspirations and ideas. "Table for one, please."
I can honestly say for years (more than 20) I was working. I occasionally threw in a trip, or worked on a craft project, or worked out. My main focus was always the work. What I had to do the next day, what projects had to be completed, and meeting the deadlines requested of me. Sometimes that drove me to working seven days a week. I didn't complain. Actually I didn't even think about it. It was things that I had to get done in order for me to continue to be employed. That's how I saw it.
And now I am reflecting and advising those of you out there the very cliche, but oh so true truth of it all. Stop to smell the roses. Not just when the roses bloom, but everyday. What did you do for yourself today? Did you spend time working out? Did you sew up a new outfit? Did you enjoy that book you've been meaning to read for years?
Ask yourself the question. You are not being selfish by doing something for yourself everyday. That's the other guilt trip. I thought that if I "treated" myself on a rare occasion that I was mostly giving and only occasionally a little tiny bit selfish. Get rid of that word (unless you truly are selfish and don't share anything). Most of us share our time, our knowledge, our humor, our lives. Take time to be positive for yourself and your life.
Remember when you were a kid and tried everything to find your niche? Well, it's time to do that again to find that everyday. With youtube.com and the millions of other videos, let's plan to plant that first shot of tomatoes on your balcony next spring. What do you need? Will there be any cost? If you plan, you can minimize the impact of picking up a new hobby.
So take a moment and reflect on what you did for you today. Stay tuned for more inspirations and ideas. "Table for one, please."

